Sermon for 4th Sunday in Lent: 15 March 2015 (John 3:16)

Sermon for 4th Sunday in Lent

15 March 2015


The Rev. Carrie B. Smith


Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.


This morning’s Gospel text includes John 3:16—by all accounts the most beloved, most familiar verse in the Bible, and at the same time the one we still most need to hear.

It can be difficult for a preacher to imagine what “new” can be said about such a familiar verse, but then again, “new” is never the point of preaching. The Good News is the aim of preaching, specifically God’s Good News for our Bad Situation. The Good News is now, and ever has been, that through the cross of Christ we see that God loves the world. And our bad situation is that we love the darkness.

Heaven knows, there’s plenty of darkness in the world today. There is the stuff we’re pretty sure doesn’t apply to us (terrorism, extremism, and violence) and the stuff we actively seek to avoid (racism, sexism, and homophobia). Then there’s the stuff we know is darkness but find tempting anyway (consumerism, greed, grudges, and indifference to the suffering of others, to name a few). But the darkness we really love, the darkness which most attracts us all, is the belief that only some of the world is beloved.

“For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life.” John 3:16 has been called “the Gospel in a nutshell”, a perfectly condensed expression of the Good News. We memorize it, we put it on t-shirts, we stick it on our cars, but when it comes to living it out, the news sounds a little different: For God so loves the good people….For God so loves the ones who look like me…For God so loves the ones who vote like me…For God so loves the Christians…For God so loves the Christians who worship like me and share my theology...For God so loves the people on my side of the city, my side of the wall, my side of the issues…

With John 3:16 as our motto, we proudly proclaim that through the cross of Christ, God loves the world…but the world we imagine is very small indeed.

View from the tower at Lutheran Church of the Redeemer, Jerusalem
Photo by Carrie Smith
I’ve been showing my parents around Jerusalem for the last several days. It’s their first visit here, and it’s been interesting to see the city anew through their eyes. Things that seem normal after living here for a few months (I’ve now been here almost eight months—hard to believe!) once again look scandalous and strange. The division seems starker. The quarters seem further apart. The lack of human interaction across boundaries is shocking and even embarrassing to behold. Do all these people really live on this tiny piece of real estate? Wait, who is allowed to live in this part of the city? Wait, where would this third temple be built? Who is allowed to pray, and where? How many churches are sharing this space? And why do they fight? Explain again about the ladder?

Jerusalem is the perfect place to see in living color how the darkness of exclusivity is so attractive to humans. God loves us, and not you. God wants us to do this, and not that. Christians are certainly not immune. Pastors and missionaries and activists and aid workers are not immune. And this is why we need to hear John 3:16 again, and again, and again. For God so loved the world. For God so loved the world. For God so loved the world! The belovedness of the world—the whole world—is the most amazing Good News to hear, and the most difficult news to accept.

Milky Way,
Wadi Rum
Photo by Danae Hudson
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But indeed, this is the message of John 3:16, for, as it reads in Greek: “God so loved the kosmos, that he sent his only Son…” And yes, that means exactly what it sounds like in English. God loved the cosmos, the universe in its entirety, all of creation—or, as Psalm 24 puts it: For “the earth is the LORD's, and everything in it, the world, and all who live in it”. God’s love is for those who are like us and those who are not like us at all. God’s love is for those with whom we agree and those we would call enemies. 
God’s love is for everyone—like it or not.

The belovedness of the cosmos is radical Good News – so radical, in fact that perhaps it is the kind of Good News which needs a hospitable environment in which to take root and grow. I wonder if our difficulty in accepting and living into the cosmic love of John 3:16 stems from our inability to believe our own belovedness.

The other day, I heard a National Public Radio report on a study of American children entering college, and it found in these students a dramatic rise in narcissism (a belief that you are better than everyone around you) and an equally dramatic drop in compassion (an awareness of and caring for the situation of others). The cause? It seems to be the decades of concern over the “self-esteem” of our children.

I was thinking about this report, and how it reveals that once again, we humans have missed the point. We saw darkness (kids with low opinions of themselves) and we tried to fix it with something that ended up being just as dark (overindulgent praise, resulting in kids believing they are better, bigger, stronger, and smarter than everyone else in the world.)

According to this report, the problem of self-esteem has gone away, but now we have created young people who love themselves, but aren’t too interested in other people.

Feeling good about ourselves and our abilities isn't a bad thing. However, I wonder what it would mean for us to know instead that we are beloved—by our parents, certainly, but more importantly, by God.

After all, having good self-esteem just means feeling that when you are put up next to other people, you are just as good or even better.

But being beloved means knowing you are loved even if you are shorter, slower, darker, lighter, richer, poorer. Being beloved means standing tall on the foundation of God’s love and not on our merits or our talents or our DNA. Being beloved means understanding that you are worthy of love and respect because you are part of the cosmos, a world wondrously created by God and redeemed by the cross of Christ. “For by grace you have been saved through faith, and this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God— not the result of works, so that no one may boast. For we are what he has made us, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand to be our way of life.” (Ephesians 2:8-10)

Being beloved frees us to see the person in front of us not as a threat, but as an extension of God’s love—worthy of respect, worthy of mercy, worthy of forgiveness, worthy of gentleness.

Catholic priest Henri Nouwen, who spent decades living and working with the developmentally disabled, wrote eloquently about this in his book, “The Life of the Beloved”:  

“To be chosen as the Beloved of God is something radically different. Instead of excluding others, it includes others. Instead of rejecting others as less valuable, it accepts others in their own uniqueness. It is not a competitive, but a compassionate choice. Our minds have great difficulty in coming to grips with such a reality. Maybe our minds will never understand it. Perhaps it is only our hearts that can accomplish this.”

In Jerusalem, at the checkpoints, in Mosul, Ferguson, and Madison, it’s clear that human minds are not grasping the belovedness of the other. The light has come into the world, and yet where such darkness reigns, humanity is already condemned.

But God so loved the world that God could not abide the reality of our brokenness.

God so loved the world that God would not just “let it be”.

God so loved the world that God sent the Son into human time, to walk with us and share our sufferings.

God so loved the world that the Son was lifted up on the cross, revealing the power of love to overcome the darkness.

God so loved the world that on the third day the Son was lifted up from the grave, defeating death and sin once and for all.

God so loved the world that Christ is present for us in ways our hearts can understand: in water, as bread, as wine, in and among the beloved community.
Jerusalem sunrise
Photo by Carrie Smith


Sisters and brothers, God so loved the world that those who believe, those who have come into the light, may live the promised eternal life in the here and now. That life begins when we see the other as one with us, a beloved, integral part of the cosmos God created and Christ has redeemed. Go, and live in the light. Amen. 

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