Sermon for Sunday, 12 October 2014

Sermon for 12 October 2014

18th Sunday after Pentecost

The Rev. Carrie Ballenger Smith


Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.
He makes me lie down in green pastures;
he leads me beside still waters; he restores my soul.
He leads me in right paths for his name’s sake.

Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I fear no evil;
for you are with me;
your rod and your staff—they comfort me.

You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies;
you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life,
and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord my whole life long.

A few days ago, I found myself at a table with three Catholic priests from New York, a religious sister from Ireland, and another from China. As I stepped out of the church to head home for dinner, they caught me and invited me to sit for coffee. It’s not an altogether unusual experience in Jerusalem to find one’s self at a table with strangers who quickly become friends.

Our conversation started as most do around here: “Why are you here? Are you a tourist or a student? Where are you staying? How long will you stay? Is it your first trip here?” This time, however, my new friends’ responses took the discussion down an unexpected path. It turns out that all three of these brothers had been in New York City on September 11, 2001. One was teaching a college world religions class when he saw the plane hit the first building. One had been in the second tower fifteen minutes before it was hit. And the other had been at breakfast that sunny morning with fellow Franciscan Father Mychal Judge, chaplain to the New York City Fire Department. Fr. Mychal raced from breakfast directly to the towers when he heard the news, and ended up being the first death recorded on that terrible day.

As my new friends shared their very personal experiences of that day in New York, here in Jerusalem the late afternoon Muslim call to prayer began to be sounded out above us. Even after only two months of living here, this has become such a part of my daily environment that I barely even notice it. 

But the sound was jarring enough to interrupt our conversation. In that moment, the memories of a day thirteen years ago, in a city far away, were colliding with our present reality. In 2001 in New York City, Americans felt absolutely certain about who their enemies were.  Differences in race, religion, and politics melted away, as the people of my country were united in nearly unanimous fear and hatred of the “other”. Sharing our memories and feelings of that day of sorrow can easily transport us back to that place, where we again attempt to take hold of the same certainty about who’s in, who’s out, who’s with us and who is against us.

The call to prayer suddenly accompanying our table conversation was a not-so-subtle reminder that people can never be so easily classified as “enemy” or “friend.” In fact, at that particular outdoor cafe—owned by a Muslim family—the one who was appearing as “enemy” in our remembrances was now the host of our meal together.
“You set a table before me in the presence of my enemies.” In some contexts, five Catholics and a female Lutheran pastor would never be found at a table together! Sadly, I remember presiding at a large Lutheran-Catholic funeral in my suburban Chicago church, in which a local Catholic priest attended for the purpose of ensuring none of his congregants came forward for communion. He sat in the back, arms crossed, and glared at them if they made a move towards our Lutheran table. Some, members of the family of the deceased, came to the table anyway. Many others sat back down in silence.

Our neighbor's sukkah
Photo by Carrie Smith
“You set a table before me in the presence of my enemies.” Over the last week, tables of abundance have been set in the homes (and sukkot) of our neighbors in the presence of an enemy. The “enemy” in question is no person, or even a group of people, but rather the ongoing conflict between Arab and Israeli, Palestine and Israel. My neighbor’s sukkah developed from a few beams of wood covered in blankets, to a rather cozy-looking shelter complete with party lights, hanging foil decorations, and many good food smells wafting in the direction of our apartment. Only a few days before, our Muslim neighbors were also feasting for Eid al Adha. Animals were slaughtered and prepared in special dishes, and families made special efforts to visit the tables of all possible relatives during the days of the feast.

Children with balloons for the Eid
Photo by Carrie Smith
The feasts of these two religions took on special importance this year, after a summer of bloodshed, fear, anxiety, and distrust of the “other”. Muslims desperately needed a feast, as their summer Eid celebration was effectively cancelled because of the conflict. And Jews, too, need to gather at tables of abundance, signs of God’s enduring goodness even in the presence of rockets, bombs, checkpoints, and walls – all enemies of a true and lasting peace.




“You set a table before me in the presence of my enemies.” Here in Jerusalem, we come to church having walked through every kind of valley, some of them very dark indeed. Along the way, we’ve been conditioned to see enemies around every corner. In fact, living here can feel like being a recurring contestant on a game show called “Who’s my enemy this time?” or “Which of these things is not like the other?” Where does he stand politically? Is she Muslim, Christian, or Jew? What neighborhood does he live in? Do they work for a competing organization?

We are all too often hyper-focused on identification of “the enemy”. After all, if God sets a table for us in the presence of our enemies, the implication is that God has provided nothing at all for the other guys. And this…makes perfect sense to us. Of course, not everyone can be invited. Of course, God’s favor only rests on those with whom we agree.

 It’s for this reason that the parable in today’s Gospel lesson, though disturbing, also resonates with us in a powerful way. Yes, it seems unfair for the king to throw someone out for not wearing a wedding robe (especially when guests were hauled in off the street!) But then again, someone has to end up in the outer darkness. Someone needs to experience weeping and gnashing of teeth. Give any one of us a few minutes, and we’d be able to make a list of exactly who we think Jesus may have been talking about. Our struggle with God’s abundant hospitality and open invitation to the table often makes us our own worst enemy.

“You set a table before me in the presence of my enemies.” One of the great privileges of being a pastor is the opportunity to share communion with those nearing the end of life. Last fall, I sat vigil at a hospice-care facility with a church member and her husband, whose brain cancer was in its final stages. Bruce was beyond ready to experience what God had in store next, but at only 59 years old, his body was strong. As a result, the last leg of his journey took much, much longer than the doctors, nurses, and family had hoped.

On Bruce’s last day, family and close friends gathered at his bedside to share communion. Bruce hadn’t received anything by mouth for many days, but he was adamant in wanting to participate. It was his wife who lovingly placed the tiniest wine-soaked crumb of bread on his tongue. Family members and friends then passed the bread and wine to each other around the bed, surrounding Bruce in the presence of Christ.

The power of that moment is a testament to how the feast of grace, mercy and forgiveness we receive through the Body and Blood of Christ is more than a snack break in the middle of a great and mighty battle. This feast of love renders the enemy powerless. The presence of the crucified and risen Christ in, with, and under the bread and the wine that day, conquered Bruce’s brain tumor once and for all. The tumor didn’t disappear, but it no longer held the last word. 

A typical Palestinian feast of salads (mezze)
Photo by Carrie Smith

“You set a table before me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord my whole life long. ”


It is indeed a great comfort to know that in the midst of conflict and chaos, terror and turmoil, sickness and sorrow, God always sets before us this table of abundant love and grace. Psalm 23 reminds us that God’s got our back, whether our enemy has a face, or comes disguised as cancer, debt, depression, addiction, or the powers and principalities of the system. God, the good shepherd, leads us through the olive grove, brings refreshing October rain, guides us through difficult conversations, and comforts weary bodies and hearts. 

God sets a table before us, inviting us to put down our weapons and to pull up a chair. The feast is now ready. All are welcome.

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